I canny find anyplace on the net that I feel entirely good about anymore. Maybe it's because the various places are associated with various people. :-p DUH! If it were not for the people, maybe everything would be all right. But then I would be blogging in a vacuum. Maybe that's the solution. Blog in a vacuum, read it yourself and forget about developing any kind of relationships because they only bring pain. The more intense and significant the relationship--the worse the pain. Why? Because people lie and tell you things you come to depend upon, and then, before you know what's happening, they run off and you are wondering what you did to deserve to be treated like a bag of garbage.
Of course, net life is like real life. You get led down the path in real life too, and the results are disastrous. Many times people think that real life supercedes anything virtual, but I am one to take my net relationships seriously, so when someone I like on the net, whom I THOUGHT was fond of me also, decides to jettison the connection without a backward glance after a couple years, I feel horrible.
amillionpieces
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(10.5.08 13:07)
I think you hit it on the head when you say it's like real life too - there are always people like that. Sadly sometimes online it can be harder to spot them. It's not easy but I think all you can do is move on, but don't let there presence on sites you use bug you.
Fiona
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(22.5.08 21:51)
Oh! OH! OHHHHHHH! A Comment! I got a comment!!! I didna KNOW I had a comment!! Wheeeeeee!! :D Thank you!
And no, I try not to let the people bother me because I am outspoken, and I say what I feel and get into lots of scraps off and on. I dun take those too personally any more. I was speaking more about a good net friend of mine. But we have since reconciled yet again, so everything is all right again. :-p